>>4032Anon when it comes to a longterm gf you are absolutely correct, honesty and true friendship can go a long way.
However not every girl is worth pursuing,some are absolute trash and others are only good for a hook up or a short term relationship(practice gf). These girls will misuse your trust and honesty. The best solution is to take "universal precautions" , treat all women the same untill they prove themselves as trustworthy. Be mysterious, reveal very little of yourself or none at all.
Also trying to understand women is akin to trying to understand martian weather patterns. Impossible. What do women want? Only god knows as even Women themselves don't really know what they want or feel at any moment. Hence the woman wishes for a nice guy but fucks the badboy that treats her like trash because thats what her dad used to be like.
>Be open. Break down internal barriers that prevent you from feeling love and developing crushes. Allow those feelings to grow and blossom.Again this is very good advice for a long term relationship. Most relationships never get that far.
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>You pick somebody you can deal with while the good points overshadow the bad ones.This should be written in gold,this is how you find a wife.
I can't help with long term relationships as i've never been married and only preach what i have used IRL. I've had long term gfs but thats very similar to a hook up.(as long as she doesnt have a ring, its not a long term relationship! If you can't trust her with a ring then its not long term even if you know each other for ten years.)
I repeat again, What i say, has been practiced by yours truly and only applies to finding a gf or just hooking up, i can't give marriage advice.
In the beginning you must focus on casual relationships or practice gfs.this is very important because you need a few practice relationships to be able to weed out the undesirables and finally find a quality woman.
Once you find a quality woman, you will have to perform periodic maintenance else your woman might leave you for john doe next door.
Finding a suitable mate consists of the following 4 phases:
Phase 1:the search , phase 2: audit, phase 3:reeling it in, phase 4: periodic maintenance.
I will explain everything when i get back home. Be warned though i dont care for social media and never use one. I mainly find my women in real life which means things are very real, the women look real and rejection will feel even worse.it's not for the faint of heart, but show courage and ye shall be rewarded! (With baloons filled with sand and sweet lemon cream pies)