>>3382
Drive a 60 year old car down to Barstow. Learn to love afterwards. Bury the pain in the Mojave.

>>3383
Fuck it I might actually do that if I have the chance

Go hike on some mountains.

If I were you, and I know this is /kind/ and I shouldn't be saying this but for the sake of emotional honesty, I would kill her and then commit suicide. If you can't live with honor, then what's the point living at all? Life is oppression and suffering. Now I'm not saying you should do these things, but this is how I feel. This is why I think cheating/adultery should be a criminal offense. That way you get less domestic murders and people are forced to pay for their bad deeds. Maybe a fine or a couple months in jail?

>>3388
Lol imagine seething so much over a woman. Grow up. Being ugly won't solve any of the world's problems.

>>3388
Honor should be based on your own integrity. A traitorous concubine can only dishonors herself. Now sheathe thine wakizashi, my wrathful NEET samurai friend.

Sometimes people aren't who you thought they were.

>>3382
>How could she do this to me? I thought we were going to marry
Just imagine how much more devestating you would have been if you managed to get marry with her but than your wife did this to you. Not only you lost a relationship but also a financial burden through divorce raped alimony. Welp, I can't say much for your sake but this just reality of life. People just have to accept whatever shit that has gone through in their life.

I missed it.

>>3382
your gf isn't worth crying over. find a better gf who'll love you!
>>3400
what…?

>>3388
wrong board, mr fed. go post this shit on /r9k/

>>3382
>but still the pain is still lingering
Be kind to yourself. That kind of fussing only serves to entangle and strengthen your feelings of mourning. If you want to move on then nurture your appreciation for nice things and express loving patience towards harmful thoughts and negative emotions. You're already free, you just have to choose.

>>3409
You don't need to invoke /r9k/ or the federal conspiracy meme to explain samurai friend's anger. Everyday, normal people really hate cheaters, many even to the point of wanting them dead. That's why adultery has been illegal all over the world in times past. Also, /kind/ has had a huge overlap with users from /r9k/ for almost a decade now. The 8/r9k/ board owner was a friend who would promote /kind/. It was to the point that people would even refer to the board as /r9kind/.

If you look at his post with charity, samurai-san is mad that one of our friends was hurt. He's like "hurt my friends, and I'll KILL YOU" and I think that's sweet in a way.

so that's where all the gayness comes from. /r9k/ is a fucking plague. i'll never forgive what they did to wizardchan and the tower

>>3413
By gayness what are you referring to? We do have gays from the /cuteboys/ board too. At least we did on 8ch.

>>3411
I've never used /r9k/ or hung out on 4chan/8chan that much. I'm speaking honestly from the heart, not rationally. All people have an innate sense of dignity, even some animals do. If anyone cheats they are attacking their partner. Without dignity and honor life isn't worth it. I couldn't live with that kind of shame. If a man beats his gf or his wife, its an injustice and an assault on her dignity. You can't just walk away and forget about it because its like someone has emotionally stuck a knife in you and twisted it. Its like someone punches you in the face and walks away and you have to live with the humiliation. It doesn't matter if you are man or a woman, if someone violates your dignity as a human being how do you go on living? Without dignity and respect, life is utterly worthless. If I were in OP's shoes I don't think I could go on. I'm not saying OP should do anything violent but its how I feel.

Who isn't angry at all the unfairness in this world?

>>3418
i feel like japan would be a good country for living out these kinds of ideals and laws. probably not modern japan, but maybe sengoku era japan?

though, i think society would be better off if people could just focus on living happy lives rather than maintaining a sense of honor…

>>3418
>shame
>humiliation
>because somebody else acted wrong
Idiots like you who took upon their conscience wrongdoings of others are the reason world is so fucked.

>>3418
It'd be an evil that solely belongs to the other person. You'd be contributing to the harm done by trying to get personal revenge, at the least any pushback should be retributive and non-personal even if it's just for the sake of your own sanity.

>>3426
The world is messed up because people let others walk all over them instead of standing up for themselves and for others.

>>3427
>It'd be an evil that solely belongs to the other person.
Disagree. We are all connected. A relationship is a two way bond. If I go sleep with another woman, it isn't just my personal sin that involved nobody else, I have injured my gf about as badly as punching her in the face. It would be violating her as a person and betraying her and the faith she put in me and the time we invested together. If she wanted personal revenge I would understand, even if its wrong. Its always better to forgive but that's a hard thing to do. Its better to not harm other people's feelings in the first place. If you've done wrong it doesn't make you a bad person because we all make mistakes, but don't harm others feelings.

>>3423
I don't think you can have a happy life without some sense of honor. Nobody wants to hang their head in shame feeling violated, disrespected, with no dignity. But if you come from a culture where honor is still a thing, you can see that it drives people to do the most stupid things. Honor can be a very noble thing but its also pretty dumb. There has to be a balance between having no sense of honor and respect whatsoever (like in the USA) and youthful retardation of violent samurai cutting people down for looking at them funny.

>>3426
Let's have a civil discussion without resorting to personal insults.

>>3428
>If I go sleep with another woman, it isn't just my personal sin that involved nobody else
It'd be your sin that involved someone else, your wrongdoing committed on someone else, something harmful you've done to someone else. It's understandable why that person would want to strike back, but there's no need beyond a desire to defend one's sense of identity for doing that. If she could get away with rejecting further involvement then that'd simply be a better use of her effort.

>>3429
There can be no civil discussion between me and you. Not ever.

>>3431
Aww don't be that way friend. If you were my gf I'd let you cheat as much as you want.

>>3432
I can't bully you here, but I feel obliged to inform you that your post is very gay and only marginally funny.

>>3386
Yeah I plan on doing that but right now I don’t have my drivers license so that’s what I gotta do asap so I can have more freedom because right now I’m constantly getting into I moved on and then feeling depressed because I have to be around her again and ultimately I can’t do that because it’s causing me to have suicidal thoughts I thought I have come to terms with it but it’s really hitting me hard now. I just feel pathetic for still hanging into it while she already moved on and ignores when she sees me.

>>3461
I think fixating on the idea of moving on isn't healthy.

>>3461
think happy thoughts! you still have a family to hang around with, right?