No.3926
>>3925>The rest of the newcomers seem to be fine so farI'm
>>3918, from that which died of 'Chicken Jockey'. I frequented /co/, /a/ & /vt/. You won't have any problems with yours truly. My only problem is not getting enough mofu.
No.3964
>>3923I'm actually leaking and/or seething (whatever the kids are saying these days) because my favorite cuteposting sekrit klub is down right now! Doesn't seem like this place is getting hidden which makes sense because it's even deader than before the hack.
>>3924>acclimate to board cultureThat can only really happen when the OG posters outnumber the newcomers overwhelmingly which obviously isn't the case right now. The majority decides everything about the culture of a community.
>>3926>/vt/Do you at least only like the Aryan Japanese ones?
No.3965
>>3964>Aryan…and there's the very reason why I'm glad that which is down deserves to be. And deserves to never be allowed to exist ever again.
>AryanIt's that so-called 'culture' that never had the right to exist in the first place. It doesn't have the right to exist anywhere else. Least of all here. I hope measures are taken by the admin/mods of this board to never allow that unjustifiable 'culture' to exist here.
No.3970
>>3964Honestly, I have no idea what the current catchphrase is when you are mad and I frankly don't care. I just want to get away as far as possible from stuff like this. For cuteposting I only now Kakashi, which is up. I assume you are not willing to share, else you would have mentioned those altchans? I would love a index/list/whatever with all imageboards, but all I know are either down or outdated.
No.3989
>>3988it's always in the last place you look
No.4005
>>3988did you find it?
>>4002>>4003asking for help doesn't always work, but it's nice when you do actually get help!
No.4009
>>4007I just eat something with sugar when i feel like an episode is just round the corner, its not healthy but elevates my mood a little.Ice cream or chocolate is my go to. Also sometimes i feel like i've become addicted to depression,like my brain craves it.
No.4012
>>4003I meant material help.
No.4016
It seems there’s been a big increase in levels of unkindness since many 4chan refugees came to this site.
No.4017
>>4016Yeah, I am already planning to jump ship. Currently just looking around all other imageboards I know to determine which is still the most usable before I do so. Honestly disappointed that figmin took 4cancer in and didn't even ask if the already existing userbase is okay with it. Expected better from him, but I guess this is what you get when you expect something from a stranger on the Internet, so it's my fault.
No.4019
>>4017going by the stats page /kind/ got an extremely low amount of traffic during the 4chan refugee crisis so i don't know what you have to complain about, especially when the site as a whole went from 5ppd to 200+ ppd even after 4chan came back with none of the site rules being changed in the process
>>4018>most active board by far is /pol/>everything else is deadhave fun
No.4020
>>4017>Yeah, I am already planning to jump ship.The 4cattle are returning to their cow pen to get force impregnated and datamilked by Japanese farmer. Board activity levels are steadily going back to comfy slowness. I would stick around to see if this site ends up looking like it did before. If you do leave, at least keep /kind/ in your heart.
>Honestly disappointed that figmin took 4cancer in and didn't even ask if the already existing userbase is okay with it.I thought I was the only one who felt this way. Personally, I would've appreciated some kind of discussion about this before flooding wapchan. It was very jarring/alienating to wake up one day and barely recognize my favorite comfy "hugbox" (as the 4bullies call it).
>>4019>going by the stats page /kind/ got an extremely low amount of traffic during the 4chan refugee crisis.I think he's talking about the site as a whole, not just /kind/. Also, I wonder if /kind/'s traffic was reduced due to friends feeling alienated and not wanting to attract too much 4bully attention. Personally, I browsed other places more during that time.
No.4023
>>4017>>4020my take (kindmin can chime in if he wants):
a lot of the traffic that came towards was a surprise to me, especially the f1 general. currently wapchan is run in a very "top down" way, though i have used user feedback in the past, mostly on informing new board decisions. the reason I didn't this time was because i felt this was an exceptional situation that could be later resolved when things calmed down. it was my opinion that a flood of new users would benefit the site overall provided they followed the rules (mass bans/blocking of 4chan would have likely killed all growth of the site). the site culture as a whole may be slightly different but i am committed to having new users integrated (which is why none of the rules were changed). i may move towards a more democratic system for decisions in the future (possibly with a council system similar to kissu)
No.4024
>>4020If you want wap to stay kind you have to post kind related things. Then people will learn the correct way.
It did feel uncomfy at times but its good to see more activity on the site and would be nice if some of the better users from 4bullies stay a while. I did spend more time on other places. part of it was stuff moving too fast.
Hopefully it won’t effect site culture too much. The f1 general was surprising. never expected that to come here.
No.4025
>>4020If you want wap to stay kind you have to post kind related things. Then people will learn the correct way.
It did feel uncomfy at times but its good to see more activity on the site and would be nice if some of the better users from 4bullies stay a while. I did spend more time on other places. part of it was stuff moving too fast.
Hopefully it won’t effect site culture too much. The f1 general was surprising. never expected that to come here.
No.4052
>>4044What are you trying to learn?
No.4054
>>4052Web development. I may need Adderall or something. Paying attention to anything for more than a few minutes is impossible.
No.4058
>>4054Which web development resources are you using to learn? I'm also trying to learn it so I've been using Freecodecamp and udemy courses.
No.4059
>>4044get leechblock! it's what i use when i can't focus. maybe go out and get in some exercise in as well… that helps me focus too.
>>4058freecodecamp's pretty good, but their videos can be pretty long!
No.4065
>>4063Well that means you're a decent person.
A real bastard wouldn't feel anything.
No.4066
I can’t find anywhere to post. I don’t seem to fit in anywhere online. Wherever I go, whatever I post, people are always upset by it. I’m not enough of this and I’m too much of that or whatever. I’ve been trying to go outside more and make IRL friends but I have the same issues. I never fit in anywhere and people eventually tell me to fuck off.
I spend a lot of time in the priest’s office. I don’t have a reason to be there. I’m not even a Christian but they are the only people IRL I can talk to. Even they can sense there’s stuff wrong with me and I’m probably gonna stop going because it feels like I’m being a nuisance.
No.4098
>>4066Do not be dismayed dear anon. Your problems arise from the fact that you are an honest person who cannot or will not hide his true self from others. This means that you are a healthy, sane individual who lives in an insane world where everybody else puts a few dozen masks on their face and change their social personality based on their current situation.
Congrats for being an honest person, however you really have to try to hide your powerlevel. And only reveal things when you are sure that the other person is on the same wavelength as you.
You must become a chameleon and act like the other sparrows otherwise they will leave you to fend off the eagles by yourself. You are not a sparrow but must act like one for the sake of your sanity.
A true friend who respects your true self is very very hard to find. I understand that you want true friendship and not the fake friendships that are so common these days, alas you cannot be honest with everyone.Not everyone deserves your honesty. Make a few fake friends by becoming a chameleon and maybe, one day, you might come across another sparrow who turns up to be a chameleon in disguise and thats when you might find a true friend.
No.4099
>>4096Is it love or money/job related?
No.4101
>>2858>considering getting an appointment with psychologist and then psychiatrist to get the ADHD meds>figure out that I might as well get help with my anxious/lazy/schizoid/no gf stuff and maybe I get to honestly rant about how I think the world is fucked, so maybe someone will at last understand and help me deal with all that shit>all psychologists and psychotherapists around are womenWell, shit. I don't expect a woman to understand man's problems nor my borderline schizoid/avoidant issues.
No.4102
>>4101And not to mention me going full-on honest would end up insulting the whole normie world. There would be a better chance of understanding with a guy.
No.4104
>>4101>all psychologists and psychotherapists around are womenAnon, I don't know how it is in your country but therapists usually have some sort of association or union, you can check their website to find a therapist. Or if that fails, you can always go to a local university and see if they have a community clinic. Having said that, I do understand your frustration, female therapists are the most useless things on our planet, next to theme park attendants and mall security guards
No.4116
Seeing the CP that was spammed earlier today fills me with immense unkind rage and the desire to kill and take life.
No.4118
i fucking hate the (party of poorly drawn bearded freaks we dare not speak its name) that came out of the depths of hell
No.4120
I had a year to try and make friends. Its now summer and everyone has vacated campus. I made no friends. I’ve hung out with nobody. I failed orz
No.4121
>>4119Women are extremely fickle beings much like sheogorath. Best not to think too much of it and move on to more receptive females. Dating is extremely erratic, the only way to ensure success is to cast a wide net. Ask a dozen women and chances are, one of them will say yes.
>>4120Do not be dismayed young friend, you can always make friends by listening to people and sharing your food with them. Sharing food is a very easy yet effective way to make friends. Its a very primal thing and affects the psyche more than any other activity. Try it sometimes, with dudes, sharing beer is the best strategy while with females chocolate or fruit is a much more effective method.