>>2901>>3425Agree with some of what you're saying, but disagree with other parts for the following reasons.
Lain's family isn't real and even if you consider them an analogy to a real dysfunctional family, it's hard to believe the creators intended for this to be a central theme.
Even as an analogy, it doesn't really work, since Lain turned out alright under her parents, more so compared to her video game version who became suicidal without real human connections. In the end, Lain's parents were good parents, despite not being real, as they helped her reach a positive conclusion.
I don't think anyone really focuses too much on Lain being a cyber goddess, but I do agree that they shill the whole 'transcending the material for the internet' deal, and I think that's a mixup. Lain chooses to leave things be and the people who all wanted to integrate were shown as unstable throughout. At the same time there are many aspects of the show that cater to these kinds of people.
Lain has a lot of denpa appealing aspects/references: it aired past 12AM, the power lines humming, the VR headset guy, etc. I think the show is intentionally appealing to the denpa audience of, at least, Japan and so it resonated to the American alternative, which isn't real, but is the younger audiences experiencing the effects of the effects this show had on the older audience who integrated it into the zeitgeist. When the newer audience began watching it, its effects were already ingrained into that younger audience before experiencing it. Most of the younger audience likely saw it already having an idea of what was going to happen or what it was about. Their connection is a feeling of being denpa without knowing what denpa is, a copy with no awareness of the original. They are wrong about the literally me aspects, but those aspects are intentionally there and integral to the whole meaning of the show, which is a callout to those kinds of people.
The show being 'denpa' opposes that its general themes are loneliness, atomization, and breakdown by technology. For one, those aspects are part of what makes it denpa, and for that reason it could be argued that focusing on those aspects is the same as people focusing on the "literally me" aspects. They are aspects that are details relevant to the setting, but not necessarily what it conveys. The setting is all that's appealing to denpa otaku, but that doesn't make the general theme denpa. Lain breaks out of those aspects and chooses to use her omnipresence, not to break people out of reality, but to leave the world as it is. The central theme is neither a depressing outlook of the world (you mistaking the denpa aesthetics for the message), nor a push for material transcendence (younger audiences mistaking the denpa aesthetics for the message), but hope for our advancements in technology to help us accept the world as it is.